In review of 1 Corinthians 13:7 it says, “Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.” (NLT)
Society confuses love and lust. Unlike lust, God's kind of love is directed toward others, not inward toward myself. It is utterly unselfish. This kind of love goes against natural inclinations. It is impossible to have this love unless God helps me set aside my own desires so that I can love and not expect anything in return. The more I become like Christ, the more love I will show others. Love always looks for the best.
When I have high expectations of someone, I don’t tell it like it is. I tell it like it could be. I believe in what God wants to do in and through that person, and I affirm God’s purpose for them.
I’ve read of an excellent example of how this works is a story from Bruce Wilkinson, an author and teacher. Years ago he was a new professor at Multnomah University, and at the first faculty meeting, he received his class assignments. Another professor saw his sheet and said, “Bruce, you’ve been given two of the section A classes. They’re the brightest students in the university. They’re really engaged and a joy to teach. You’re fortunate to have section A students in your first year.”
Bruce discovered that to be true—he absolutely loved teaching those kids. They were so much more fun to teach than the other classes. They were smarter and asked better questions.
At the end of the year, Bruce told his department supervisor, “Man, I sure hope I get the section A classes again next year!” The supervisor told him, “Bruce, there is no section A. We canceled that program six years ago.”
When Bruce went back and checked his grade books, he found that those “section A” classes may not have been advanced placement, but they got more A’s and wrote more thoughtful term papers than his other classes. Bruce realized that because he expected them to be better students, they rose to the challenge.
Throughout my life, I will shape the people around me by my expectations of them. When I expect the best from others, I am reflecting the lasting love of Jesus.
The apostle Paul tells us that love does not nag or perpetually bring up past mistakes. The Bible says, “Love . . . always looks for the best” (1 Corinthians 13:7 The Message). Lasting love is forward-looking. It’s optimistic. Lasting love is full of hope.
In summary, tell it like it could be. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always helpful, and endures through every circumstance. Love always looks for the best. When I have high expectations of someone, I don't tell them like it is, rather I tell them like it could be. I believe in what God wants to do in and through that person, and I affirm God's purpose for them. Because I expect them to be better, they will rise to the challenge. I will shape those around me by my expectations of them. When I expect the best, I'm reflecting the lasting love of Jesus.
This morning Father I thank you for the leadership lesson and reminder to look for and expect the best, letting them know how it can be. I pray today for this reminder to be worked into my own leadership. I thank you for healing from my illness and ask you for wisdom and guidance for my day, my tasks, my leadership, and my interaction with others. These things I pray through your Son Jesus name, Amen.
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