“Take on an entirely new way of life—a God-fashioned life, a life renewed from the inside and working itself into your conduct as God accurately reproduces his character in you.” Ephesians 4:22-24 (MSG)
Many religions and philosophies promote the old lie that people are divine or can become gods. I will never become God or even a god.
That prideful lie is Satan’s oldest temptation. Satan wanted Adam and Eve to follow his advice and promised them: “You will be like God . . .” (Genesis 3:5 NIV).
This desire to be a god shows up every time I try to control my circumstances, future, or people around me. But I'm a creature; I will never be the Creator. God doesn’t want me to become a god; he wants me to become godly, taking on his values, attitudes, and character.
The Message paraphrase says I am meant to “take on an entirely new way of life—a God-fashioned life, a life renewed from the inside and working itself into your conduct as God accurately reproduces his character in you” (Ephesians 4:22-24).
God’s purpose for my life isn’t to make me comfortable. He wants me to grow up spiritually and become like Christ.
Becoming like Christ does not mean losing my personality or becoming a mindless clone. God created my uniqueness, so he doesn’t want to destroy it. Christlikeness is all about transforming my character, not my personality.
When I forget that transforming my character is one of God’s purposes for my life, it’s easy to become frustrated by my circumstances. I wonder, “Why is this happening to me? Why am I having such a difficult time?” One reason is that this world is broken. God never promised that life would be easy—but difficulty enables me to grow. Remember, earth is not heaven.
In John 10:10, Jesus promises: “I have come that they may have life, and that they might have it more abundantly” (NKJV). Many Christians misinterpret this promise of abundant life to mean perfect health, a comfortable lifestyle, constant happiness, full realization of dreams, and instant relief from problems through faith and prayer.
In a word, they expect the Christian life to be easy. They expect heaven on earth.
But God is not my genie or my servant. If I fall for the idea that life is supposed to be easy, I will become severely disillusioned and live in denial of reality.
The truth is, life is not about me! I exist for God’s purposes, not vice versa. Why would God provide heaven on earth when he’s planned the real thing for me in eternity?
God gives me my time on earth to build and strengthen my character—so Ill be ready for an eternity in heaven.
In summary:
Ephesians 4:22–24 teaches that God calls me to embrace a completely new way of living—one that is transformed from the inside out as His character is formed in me. Rather than believing the lie that I can be my own god or control everything around me, I’m invited to become godly by reflecting God’s values, attitudes, and heart. This transformation isn’t about losing my personality but about reshaping my character to become more like Christ. Life on earth isn’t meant to be easy or centered on my comfort; it’s a training ground where challenges grow and mature me spiritually. Ultimately, my purpose isn’t to build heaven here, but to allow God to prepare my character for eternity with Him.
Bottom Line:
Life isn’t about becoming my own god or chasing comfort—it’s about surrendering to God’s transforming work so my character becomes more like Christ.
Next Step:
Shift my primary goal from expanding impact to deepening character alignment. Before I scale influence, refine identity. Before I equip others, allow God to further shape me.
Based on this passage, that means intentionally asking:
Where am I still trying to control outcomes instead of surrendering them?
Where am I prioritizing comfort or momentum over character formation?
What area of my leadership needs deeper inner renewal—not just better strategy?
Practically, my next step could be:
Choose one character trait (patience, humility, courage, consistency, gentleness, integrity) and make it your intentional growth focus for the next 60–90 days.
Build reflection into your leadership rhythm—weekly review: “Did my conduct reflect Christ’s character this week?”
Integrate character formation into your coaching frameworks—move from performance coaching to transformation coaching.
Your 2026 success will not be defined by how many people I reach. It will be defined by how clearly Christ’s character is reproduced in me—and then through me.
Alignment first.
Equipping second.
Influence naturally follows.
